hehe... dont know why. i like to make a love-related entry lately..
(maybe its the sign for me to be in loved.. hohoho)
ok back to the topic. "LOVE LIFE"
its a good thing to be in love-life. but not all "Love life"-things is good.(especially when break-up (-.-)
for today entry, i wanna talk about the painful things when break up.. ( which may be pop-up when we try to move on)
(go on and read!! you might have felt at least one of these things before or u will feel it later)
hohoho.. here i listed some of the painful things when broke up :
• Trying to hide what you really feel.
hohoho... i know it hard n maybe the hardest thing to do in your part..
but to make people happy for your moving on (after break-up)
you have to show that you are okay but deep inside you are not (i know u r not ok ).
• Reminiscing the good times.
That's the only thing that you can do.. Good memories with your past lover may make you smile.
but my advices, FORGET IT!!
• Bringing back the feeling you've learned to forget.
When u think of it, "I got over him/her" and promised yourself to forget everything including the feelings for that person.
But when you will try to bring back the feeling, you have to reminisce the good times. (well its felt suck!!)
• Having a commitment with someone you know that would not last (plu-straight crush).
This is what you called a gamble. When you will love someone you have to take a risk.
Because you will never know what will happens next.this is the most common happen to almost plu..!
we fall in love to him n we dont know how it will end up. (refer to my previous entry. i talk in details there)
• Taking risk to "fall in love "again"
Like what I've mentioned above, loving someone is a gamble.
You know everything would not last except both of you decided to tie a knot.
• Right love at the wrong time.
Simple explanation with this is that two persons love each other but the problem is he have her and she have him. OUCH!
(means two person in love while they have their own partner)
• Loving someone who loves another.
All I can say is: It's time to face the truth, he/she will never be with you.
Don't let one-sided love invades you. ( it will end up with hurt feeling)
advise : find another guy who is better than him :)
• Accepting that it was never meant to me.
ouch..! ... I hate this feeling.
i wont describe further.. it hurted :(
• What Ifs. All you can do is to have "day dreaming" about that person. Hoping for nothing?
My advices : Go to the one whom can comfort u better rather than love.. such family, friends. they will accept u with open hands.. (trust me.! i've been there).. or keep urself busy. so u wont think of him or her.. :)
erm.. gotta situation here..
what will u do if u fall in love with ur buddies?
(no discrimination for str8 or even gay)
with this situation, there will be two possibolities :
1. both are in love with each other
- happy ending of course.. (happily ever after bla.. bla.. bla..)
2. one sided love
- this is the most difficult situation. for example, if one confess his or her love towards the other, n the other one reject the love,.. the situation will be most awkward later.. (awkward friends - loss bestfriend)
however, describing in gay love, it will be most complicated. as we are plu, we often fall in love with our str8 friends. its hard to resist .( i know. i have felt it too) plu - str8 crushes are like do or die situation when it comes to the confession..
usually , it commonly end up in one sided love n an awkward friendship. (i have been there once :( :( :( )
so, if u fall in love with ur buddies, watch out!
my advices (if u dont want to be in awkward friendships, which probably will happen,
1. try not to confess it.
2. try ur best hid it.. until u confirmed that u r not in one sided love :)
p/s : to my friends im, this entry contained my advices for u :)
i need a guy who can protect me.
i need a guy who can say its alright for me.. when i am down..
i need a guy who can trust me when everyone not..
i need a guy who can hug me when i am down..
i need a guy who can be by my side when i am sad..
i need a guy who can help me to be a better person.. like i always wish to have in my dream..
i dont need..
i dont need a guy who will leave me when i got problems..
i dont need a guy who will make me feel unconmfortable with him..
i dont need a guy who will not be by my side when i am sad..
i dont need a guy who will not understand me..
i dont need a guy who like to force other person..
i dont need a guy who is full of hypochrite.. like i always got in this plu world,,