hehe... dont know why. i like to make a love-related entry lately..
(maybe its the sign for me to be in loved.. hohoho)
ok back to the topic.
"LOVE LIFE"
its a good thing to be in love-life. but
not all "Love life"-things is good.(especially when
break-up (-.-)
for today entry, i wanna talk about the
painful things when break up.. ( which may be
pop-up when we try to move on)
(
go on and read!! you might have felt at least one of these things before or u will feel it later)
hohoho.. here i listed
some of the painful things when broke up :
• Trying to
hide what you really feel.
hohoho... i know it hard n maybe the
hardest thing to do in your part..
but
to make people happy for your moving on (
after break-up)
you have to s
how that you are okay but deep
inside you are not (i know u r not ok ).
•
Reminiscing the
good times.
That's the only thing that you can do.. Good memories with your past lover may make you smile.
but my advices,
FORGET IT!!
•
Bringing back the
feeling you've learned to forget.
When u think of it,
"I got over him/her" and promised yourself to forget everything including the feelings for that person.
But when you will try to bring back the feeling, you have to reminisce the good times. (well its felt suck!!)
• Having a
commitment with someone you know
that would not last (
plu-straight crush).
This is what you called a gamble. When you will love someone you have to take a risk.
Because you will never know what will happens next.this is the
most common happen to almost plu..!
we fall in love to him n we dont know how it will end up. (refer to my previous entry. i talk in details there)
•
Taking risk to "
fall in love "again"
Like what I've mentioned above, loving someone is a gamble.
You know everything would not last except both of you decided to tie a knot.
•
Right love at the wrong time.
Simple explanation with this is that
two persons love each other but the problem is
he have her and she have him. OUCH!
(means two person in love while they have their own partner)
•
Loving someone who loves another.
All I can say is: It's time to
face the truth, he/she will
never be with you.
Don't let one-sided love invades you. ( it will end up with hurt feeling)
advise :
find another guy who is better than him :)
•
Accepting that it was
never meant to me.
ouch..! ... I hate this feeling.
i wont describe further.. it hurted :(
• What
Ifs.
All you can do is to have "
day dreaming" about that person. Hoping for nothing?
erm..
My advices :
Go to the one whom can comfort u better rather than love.. such
family, friends. they wil
l accept u with open hands.. (trust me.! i've been there).. or
keep urself busy. so u
wont think of him or her.. :)
Aie Jone